Some of my best friends
Just a week ago, our four children and some of their spouses/significant others gathered at our home in central Pennsylvania. It has been quite some time since we were able to logistically pull this off, so it was a big deal.
Becki and Joe came in from the Baltimore, Maryland area, Sarah from Pittsburgh, Rachel and Brandon arrived from Fort Worth, and Jason and Sarah drove from Allentown, Pennsylvania. Despite a delayed flight, necessitating an unexpected hotel stay, our Texans arrived first. They tried out our newest local eatery, a genuine barbeque called Sammy's Smokehouse, which passed their bbq requirements.
The next day brought everyone else, arriving through the early evening. Most of our time was spent catching up around the firepit. On Saturday our ranks thinned, and the hangers-on took in the local Japanese steakhouse; dinner and a show as the chef prepared our meal on the hibachi table.

I've discovered that I look forward to being with our kiddies simply because they are some of my best friends. There was no "duty" to this visit, and the parents took no occasion to instruct the younger generation on how they should be living their lives. We just all enjoy being together. And this I consider my finest accomplishment.








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really cool.
now that i'm older, i've come to see my mom as one of my best friends too. it's nice to see it from the parent perspective. glad you had the chance to all be together. your family is a nice looking bunch!!! any grandkids????
Thank you
I think they're a good looking crowd, too . . . but I'm biased. No grandkids, and none on the horizon. One couple married eight years, whose social conscience makes them unwilling to have children. One couple married two years (today!), and they'd like children once they are both out of school (he's a post-military undergrad, she's in grad school and working full time). One still dating couple on whom the jury is still out, and one single. Having children is apparently a harder decision for them than it was for us :-) When dating we both wanted five children, and that's what we got! Anne H.
That's a GREAT accomplishment!
What a great gang! Sounds like you all had a wonderful time.
I've been having a similar experience lately. As my oldest nieces and nephews are getting into their 20s and doing all that stuff like exiting the service and college, I suddenly realized the other day that they weren't kids anymore. I've always enjoyed their company, but there's something different now, and you nailed it -- we've become friends. How did they get so old all of a sudden when I've barely aged a day?
It's a blessing
When you realize that you and the younger (suddenly somehow older) generation are actually equals, life takes on a deeper dimension. How wonderful that you can have this experience. Anne H.